“Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice” Wayne Dyer
I think that becoming a happier person is not so much about changing external circumstances as it is about changing your thinking.
You can pile up tons of positive external stuff in your life but if your internals are messed up then your life won’t become that much better.
And the thing is that if you get your thoughts into the right place then your outer world will start to align to those thoughts. read more…http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2008/01/14/9-great-ways-to-make-yourself-absolutely-miserable/